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ok first of all that’s not true about not being good enough for whatever. you are good enough for your family and the people who love you

second if you’re really jealous you should tell brocade so he isn’t bringing other people into the relationship you aren’t happy with thinking it’s ok with u.

because if you’re already unhappy that’s a recipe for disaster and more restraining orders and I wanna cry just thinking abt it

You're a really good guy cobalt thank you i owe you one already. I'm ok with other ppl in the relationship we already have them but why is he MARRYING someone else without telling me? Are you married? D you want to be married?

im pretty sure i don’t want to date or get married at all

btw im only disclosing that to u because u are distressed if u tell anyone else I’m dropping u off the boat

anyway tell him u don’t want to marry other people. I don’t have to be in a relationship to tell u relationship boundaries r a thing

idc if you have an open relationship with 5000000 other people, that makes it more important to be 100% clear about where you need it to be not open

[HOW did this turn into a therapy session at ass o'clock, we just don't know.]

Nah i wont tell anyone, thats safe with me. I have standards when it comes to criminal activity. ill talk to cade i think. do you think he and your brother are a good fit?

Edited (formatting) 2024-11-19 17:43 (UTC)

im gonna be real i know they’ve known each other a long time & the vibes are good

but

dating —-> marriage in 3 weeks seems way too fast to me. it’s like they’re rushing to get it nailed down before they find out it can get fucked up

Edited 2024-11-19 17:45 (UTC)

cobalt cade and i did the same timeline for a week more. two weeks.

1. how long did u know each other before that. ballpark is fine

2. are u already married

3. how long have u been married

1) a couple of years. we put each other in urgent care. i can show you the cool scar he gave me its really cool

2) no but i proposed first before aloe im pretty sure.

3) no

ok so my understanding is u are not actually on the same timeline u have been dating/engaged for a long time and no one has jumped in the marriage legal binding pool yet that makes it rly extra hard to leave the situ if things shift

also there is no way my brother was the one who proposed so that’s not like a competition thing

I would like to see the cool scar but not at 2 am

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I was going somewhere with this probably but I don’t remember where now. I just think u guys should talk instead of jumping in/panicking/checking people’s legal records

[This gives him much to think about. Perhaps he should direct his energies to thinking about his own relationship and his relationship with that relationship instead of trying to steal someone's identity to look through their possible mortgage payment schedule.]

you're right ill ask aloe for his ssn myself, hes a reasonable guy isn't he.

[Perhaps not.]

[you know what

that is a more productive pipeline because it’ll get them talking face to face]

my advice on this is say hello and that u have no ill intent before u ask for the ssn

pls do this for me

good luck

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